Finding Love
(to all the single ladies... and gentlemen. Love is definitely not in the air... it is in the heart. hahaha!)
Sometimes, it seems that it would take us an eternity to find a lasting relationship. It is easy to fall in love but keeping the fire burning is a different story. For a hundred and different reasons, the glow and the excitement of the first few episodes of a seemingly perfect relationship can unexpectedly turn dark and cold. And soon, the sparks fade and people will just find themselves falling out of love.
Unfortunately, there is no sure-fire formula to enduring relationships. We wouldn't know exactly if it would work unless we get ourselves into it. And indulging our emotions seriously into heart matters can have serious repercussions when the love that we thought will stay forever changes its course and leaves us.
Not having an engagement ring doesn't make you a loser. That tiny gold clad in your finger cannot guarantee happiness. And sometimes, finding the right person doesn't always make us happy either. Remember, we should not expect others to make us happy for we can experience it even if we are all by ourselves. Real happiness is a state of mind and flows from within our hearts and not from others.
Don't think that you have had enough after so many failed relationships. Others have been through more frustrating failures than that. Having gone through those things in one piece is something that you have to be thankful for. Remember, every relationship, successful or not, is always a learning experience. After each recovery, we come out as a better knowing person. We learn to experience that pain will hurt us but we will also learn to understand that pain will teach us to become stronger persons.
We don't have to give up. The curtains of love will not close on you at 28, or even 31 or 40 perhaps. Believe me, there will be a right person who will come your way again. He/she wouldn't be what we have expected but he/she would be someone better than the previous and someone who would love you as you deserve. You just have to trust that God always has a better reason for making us suffer, though sometimes it is really hard to fathom. Do not count and think of your shattered dreams for you will lose focus on things that are more important. Remember , it shouldn't matter how many times we love and lose our balance, what should matter is how many times we get up after each fall and learn to trust and love again.
Sometimes, it seems that it would take us an eternity to find a lasting relationship. It is easy to fall in love but keeping the fire burning is a different story. For a hundred and different reasons, the glow and the excitement of the first few episodes of a seemingly perfect relationship can unexpectedly turn dark and cold. And soon, the sparks fade and people will just find themselves falling out of love.
Unfortunately, there is no sure-fire formula to enduring relationships. We wouldn't know exactly if it would work unless we get ourselves into it. And indulging our emotions seriously into heart matters can have serious repercussions when the love that we thought will stay forever changes its course and leaves us.
Not having an engagement ring doesn't make you a loser. That tiny gold clad in your finger cannot guarantee happiness. And sometimes, finding the right person doesn't always make us happy either. Remember, we should not expect others to make us happy for we can experience it even if we are all by ourselves. Real happiness is a state of mind and flows from within our hearts and not from others.
Don't think that you have had enough after so many failed relationships. Others have been through more frustrating failures than that. Having gone through those things in one piece is something that you have to be thankful for. Remember, every relationship, successful or not, is always a learning experience. After each recovery, we come out as a better knowing person. We learn to experience that pain will hurt us but we will also learn to understand that pain will teach us to become stronger persons.
We don't have to give up. The curtains of love will not close on you at 28, or even 31 or 40 perhaps. Believe me, there will be a right person who will come your way again. He/she wouldn't be what we have expected but he/she would be someone better than the previous and someone who would love you as you deserve. You just have to trust that God always has a better reason for making us suffer, though sometimes it is really hard to fathom. Do not count and think of your shattered dreams for you will lose focus on things that are more important. Remember , it shouldn't matter how many times we love and lose our balance, what should matter is how many times we get up after each fall and learn to trust and love again.
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